Do we have to go to court?

Not necessarily. Many couples reach agreement through negotiation or mediation, and the divorce application itself is dealt with online. Court involvement is usually only needed where agreement cannot be reached, and we will always explain when it may be appropriate.

Should I sort out finances at the same time as the divorce?

It is usually sensible to resolve financial matters before the final order and to record any agreement in a consent order. We can advise on the right approach for your situation.

Divorce Solicitors in Benfleet

Calm, confidential and practical guidance on divorce and separation, tailored to your circumstances.

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Ending a marriage or civil partnership is a significant step, and it is natural to feel uncertain about what happens next. Our family law team in Benfleet provides clear advice and practical guidance so you understand the process and the options available to you.

We focus on constructive resolution wherever possible, helping you reach sensible arrangements through negotiation. Where court action is necessary, we will explain each stage and support you throughout.

The divorce process

Since the introduction of no-fault divorce, it is no longer necessary to assign blame to obtain a divorce. The court needs to be satisfied that the marriage has broken down irretrievably, and an application can be made by one party or jointly.

We will explain the stages involved — from the initial application through to the conditional order and final order — and the realistic timescales, so you know what to expect.

Finances and arrangements for children

Divorce itself is separate from resolving financial matters and arrangements for any children. These are often the issues that matter most, and they are usually best dealt with alongside the divorce.

Dividing property, savings, pensions and other assets
Spousal and child maintenance where relevant
Practical arrangements for where children live and spend time
Recording agreed terms in a legally binding consent order

We provide realistic advice on the likely range of outcomes so you can make informed decisions.

A constructive approach

We aim to keep matters as amicable as possible, which can reduce stress, cost and delay. Mediation and negotiation are often suitable, but we will advise you honestly if court proceedings become necessary to protect your position.

Frequently asked questions

A straightforward divorce typically takes several months, partly because of minimum statutory waiting periods built into the process. Resolving finances or arrangements for children can affect the overall timescale. We will give you a realistic estimate based on your circumstances.

Related services

Financial Settlements on DivorceDividing property, pensions, savings and income.Child ArrangementsArrangements for children after separation.Family LawOur full range of family law services.

Speak to a divorce solicitor

Arrange a confidential initial discussion and we will help you understand the process and your options.

Speak to a solicitor 01702 556688

Please do not include highly sensitive details at this stage. We will contact you to discuss the appropriate next steps. We may need to carry out a conflict check before confirming whether we can act.